Learn to find your happy place – Yes, you may live on a beautiful tropical island but you need to find your happy place on the island that you enjoy. It could be a particular part of a beach, a hidden cove, a viewpoint or simply where they serve the best pancakes. Ironically, your happy place used to be a tropical island when you lived back in your home country, crammed on that morning train, nose to armpit with a stranger who only showered at weekends.