Pantea Shabkhiz Paya and her family in the U.S

Tempting as it is to splash out on cute little babygros at the annoucement of a new arrival, it’s probably worth checking whether the parents already have them (parents often receive hundreds of babygros in newborn size) and whether they really want their newborn infant dressed in the colours of your favourite football team. You may want to offer to buy some of the big items like a pushchair or a crib but speak to the parents before you decide on anything specific.